deleting someone’s number, pictures, and their message thread is so liberating.
it means: “you can’t ‘accidentally’ call/text them” “you don’t have to see their message thread and get caught up in what used to be” & “you can allow yourself space to heal”
it is painful but its growth and it is a process.
“You have to learn to get up from the table when love is no longer being served.” -Nina Simone
letting go
wow! it’s been so long since I’ve been here!
Son chagrin est si ancien, me rappelai-je. Et pourtant je ne croyais pas quβune telle souffrance puisse jamais sβestomper. La souffrance avait sa propre vie, elle sβalimentait toute seule.
Leigh Bardugo, Grisha III (via prosedumonde)